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MASON'S JAR PART 2

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Closet Clean-out

Living in a small, 500 square foot apartment isn’t as bad as you think it might be. Especially if the layout is functional. The only thing I have a complaint about is my one, SINGLE closet. Yep. No coat closet, no bathroom closet, no linen closet, just one in my bedroom.

I used to purchase something at every store I visited. As I’ve gotten older, my shopping addiction has screeched to a halt. As much as I love the thrill of wearing a new outfit, there is something very freeing about cleaning out your closet.

Lost in a sea of clothes from 2012

I know that I am only one of many who feel overwhelmed when it’s time to tackle the closet situation. It’s so easy to hold on to pieces that you don’t wear anymore. A dress you bought your freshman year of college, a tshirt that brings back fond memories, jeans that don’t fit, leggings that are ripped. Here's a piece of truth though; in reality, clothes are just things.

I recently cleaned out my closet and dresser and took away more than six bags of items that I hadn’t touched or worn in at least a year. It hurt giving some of it away. You’ll think, “Well, I haven't worn that in two years, but it cost me $60 so it has to be worth keeping." Been there, felt that. Holding it hostage in your closet to collect dust is a waste of space. You deserve better!

Just half of the pile of clothing I gave away

I'm slowly trying to adopt a more minimalist way of living. Giving away those giant bags of clothes was like taking dead weight off my back. I even felt a little bit ashamed at how much I've spent on clothing and accessories over the years. I doubt I will ever be able to live with only 10 pieces in my entire wardrobe, but I'm focusing on other things I would rather spend (or save!) my money on/for.

Letting go of old clothes and cutting back on shopping doesn't mean you have to cut back on style. I'm slowly trying to build a closet with solid, quality pieces that are versatile in the lifestyle I live. Here are a few tips I have as I encourage you to clean out your closet:

1. If you saw the item (in your closet) in a store today, would you buy it?

2. When is the last time you wore it? If it has been more than 6 months, I say toss it.

3. Does it fit you? Do you feel confident in it?

4. Can you wear it for more than one occasion? (example: work, class, weekends, date night)

5. Are you only keeping it because you feel guilty throwing it away for how much you spent on it?

6. Does it belong to your ex? THROW IT AWAY. 

Haha! But you get the idea. For more information on minimizing your wardrobe and tips on conquering your hoarders closet habits, click the links below!

LET IT GO

becomingminimalist

Ask Yourself...

5 Step Wardrobe Cleanse

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Adulthood, is that you?

Next month I'll be 23. I know 23 is still extremely young, but there aren't any fun songs about this age and it's kind of like, "Well, I'm 3 years in, guess I'm committed to my 20s. Now what?"

My attitude about life has changed drastically over the past year. Growing up just happens, sometimes without even noticing. I have my own place and my own responsibilities. The things I used to find myself enjoying aren't quite the same these days. The way I view the world and other people has softened. The friendships I have now are with people I enjoy having in my life, not focused on what "they should be" to me, or what "I should be" to them. Even the way I spend my money is different. I've let go of old grudges. And with one year of college left (woo-hoo!) I'm thinking about the future now more than ever. I've compiled a few funny moments of realization that led me to this ultimate conclusion - I'm growing up.

Forever21 scares me. Like, a lot. I used to waltz through that store like a champ. Give me and my best gal pals a couple of hours in there and we could walk out with four new outfits for our weekend of partying, and have only spent $50. I have always prided myself on my bargain shopping abilities but am now using them for a better cause. The name "Forever 21" is because the clothes are at a price and style that someone clinging to be forever 21, will find appealing. It never fails, I walk in with a positive attitude looking for something "cheap and trendy" to add to my closet collection, but within three minutes I'm having a mini panic attack and decide that these shorts that show my butt cheeks may be $7, and I may have seen them on someone's Pinterest board, but it's just not worth it. Thank you for the memories Forever21, but we are over. *sigh*

And to add to that...I suck at shopping. Shopping used to be my thing. I could spend hours at the mall, parading through the stores, picking up a little something at every place I go. Now I go to the mall and don't buy a single thing. Spending money on clothes and shoes just isn't as much fun as it used to be. Maybe because I have actual things to pay for now. Every item I pick up, I can talk myself out of. "How often will I really wear this strappy sundress? Are these wedges even practical? Is this too sheer for work --- I mean I am there 5 out of 7 days of the week." Anyone who knows me, or has known me in my younger years will agree that THIS HAS NEVER BEEN A PROBLEM FOR ME. Where is Mason and what have you done with her? My current shopping trips are now for solely practical things. I went shopping last weekend and all I bought was a yoga towel on clearance. People say this new "problem" I have is a good thing, but as an ex-shopaholic, it's a tad bit heartbreaking. Side note: I am really excellent at grocery shopping though.

I need alone time. I never thought that I would say that. But let me tell ya, after an early morning gym trip, followed by 3 college classes and a 6 hour shift at work, my day has been well-over 12 hours long and I'm ready to sit in some peace and quiet. As much as I love people and socializing, it's exhausting. Especially when you have a job that requires you to smile and be pleasant to everyone you come in contact with regardless of how much sleep you got last night. Adult days are draining. The way I recharge now is typically on the couch, watching a show on Netflix with pajamas on and a beer in hand.

Since when do I actually like beer? It happened so suddenly. I remember a few years ago explaining to my friends that I didn't understand how people truly enjoy a beer and I knew I never would. Every bar I went to you could catch me with an LIT or some other fruity drink in hand. At one point I was even taking Crystal-Light packets in my purse to add to my $2 water & vodkas (which is a great idea, by the way ;) you're welcome). Very rarely will you see me with either of those these days.This year I've really been exploring the craft beer world and I don't think there's any going back now. I guess growing up sometimes involves changing taste buds. 20 year old me would be shocked.

I don't exercise to be "hot" anymore. The reason I originally got in the gym almost 3 years ago, was because I wanted my body to be appealing to other people. Yes, I still want to be attractive and fit, but not in an obsessive way. I do go to the gym or yoga at least 4 times a week, but I'm doing it now because it makes me feel good. I thoroughly enjoy kicking ass in the gym and the satisfaction I get after a really tough class. My body is happier and I'm happier when I'm active. I feel strong and empowered. I'm not dieting or even trying to get abs at this point. I just want to enjoy a long, healthy life and taking care of myself plays a big role in that. I don't want to look back at age 40 and wish I would've started earlier. Taking future me into consideration.

My body was physically rejecting my belly button ring. Yep, it sounds crazy. But for a while now I've been in a constant battle just hanging on to my precious belly button gem that I so desired 7 years ago. I have lost more rings in the past 3 months than in the entire time I've had it. It would fall out, it would be a painful struggle to put it back in, I feel defeated. My body has literally been shoving it out. And here I was thinking I still had a few more solid years with it before it was time to say goodbye. Nope. My 2001 "Genie in a Bottle" Christina Aguilera days are over. Goodbye youth.

On a serious note, I've never been more excited about my future. Starting my senior year of college in just two weeks has me giddy. I love my school and I love my major. With a few awesome internship opportunities in the works and only two semesters left I absolutely can't wait to be done. I love what I'm studying and I'm so ready to start the job hunt that kicks off my career. I'm realistic, I don't expect my first job to be my dream job, but I'm hopeful about every opportunity that pushes me in that direction.

So adulthood may mean twerking it up in the club less, and trading out your tube tops for slacks, but all in all it seems promising. I'm thankful for the lessons I've learned so far and I still have many more to conquer. I can only imagine that this list will continue to grow. But for now...


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Coconut Turkey Fire Balls

It's been a cool minute since I've posted on the blog. Working more hours this summer, trying to cram in social time and keeping up at the gym have kept me pretty occupied. By the time I get home from work, I don't want to do much but sit on the couch with my blanket and Netflix.

That being said, I don't want to spend ridiculous amounts of time in the kitchen cooking dinner after a 10 hour day. I'm always on the lookout for easy recipes to throw together that not only taste delicious, but that won't make me feel like trash.

I got this recipe from a friend at work who is currently doing the Whole 30 - if you haven't heard of it I suggest you do a little research, she's had great results. While I myself am NOT doing the Whole 30, after trying her lunch one day and hearing how easy the recipe was, I decided to give it a try.

What you'll need:

1 lb of ground turkey

Coconut shavings

Cayenne pepper

Garlic seasoning

Jalapeno (if desired)

Pineapple juice

Coconut milk

1 egg

Creating the balls

1. Heat a frying pan on low to toast coconut shavings to a crisp, light brown. Put on a large plate to cool.

2. Mix 1 egg, 1 cup of crushed pineapple with juice, and coconut milk in a small bowl.

3. In a separate larger bowl, combine thawed ground turkey, finely chopped jalapeno, cayenne pepper and garlic seasoning. It's easiest to just mush it all together with your (clean!) hands.

4. After prepping a baking sheet, set the oven to 350 F. Or if you're better prepared than I am, you can do this before step 1 to really get the ball rolling. (;

5. Set up a mini assembly line starting with forming little balls with the ground turkey mix, dipping them in the pineapple juice concoction, rolling them in the toasted coconut shavings, and placing on baking sheet. Repeat until all ground turkey is balled and used. Drizzle remainder of pineapple concoction on top and dash with cayenne pepper if ya like it spicy. 

6. Time to get 'em in the oven! Set timer to 25 min, check progress, and cook longer if needed. Trial and error people.

7. After fully cooked, I tossed 2 on a plate with 1 tbsp of soy sauce and it was a match made in heaven! There are many different sauce alternatives to choose from depending on your personal taste preference.

I'm a simple gal, so I paired mine with some baby carrots and a Greek yogurt, ranch inspired veggie dip. Easy peasy. Feel free to tweak the mix to your own desire.

Add me on Pinterest to see the original recipe! ...with more professional cooking instructions.

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Summer Nails

Rarely will you find me with unpainted nails.

 I love nail polish and how something so simple can make me so happy. Polish colors change with the seasons, and I can't lie... I love the dark burgundies and navy blues of fall, but summer polish collections are always the most fun.

Here are 5 of my current favorites!

from left to right

Butler Please - Essie

Lacey Lilac - Sally Hansen Xtreme Wear

Socialite - Revlon

Resort Fling - Essie

Cajun Shrimp - OPI

This could very well be a "Part 1" to a few follow-up Summer polish posts. Nail polish is one thing I could never have enough of. Keep an eye out!

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Rambling on Perfection

What do you think of when you hear the word, perfect? We use this word to describe people, feelings, movies, lipstick, situations, bodies, days, moments, food, weddings, shoes, the list goes on.

Growing up I couldn't help but to idealize perfection. As young as elementary school, I remember worrying about perfect grades, a perfect piano recital, the perfect pair of jelly shoes, doing the perfect back-handspring. As I got older the itch for perfection only grew. 

The perfect I was searching for was now in boys, in the "cool crowd" of people at school, in the clothes I wore, in a first kiss, in what people thought of me, in the kind of car I would drive when I turned 16 - let me just say it wasn't perfect ('92 Honda with burgundy interior, if you're curious...thanks dad).

The yearning for perfection in material things stayed constant, but new expectations of perfection began to form. Perfect people. We create ideas in our minds of what people should be like, how they should treat us, and how they should make us feel. I even remember making a list of requirements I would have for a boyfriend after the first one broke my heart.

Obviously, I've had boyfriends since then and not a single one checked off every "requirement" on that list. Not because they weren't nice guys - but because perfection in people does not exist. Perfection does not exist in the majority of tangible, earthly things.

As much as we would love to say that we fully accept our own flaws along with those of other people, it is only human nature to cling to ideas of perfection.

I live a comfortable life, I have a lot of people who care about me, I'm not struggling to pay the bills, I always have a meal on the table, I'm healthy, I have good grades, a great job. Yet, DAILY I catch myself wishing for perfection in silly things.

"I wish I had perfect skin."
"If I do enough squats I'll have the perfect butt."
"I need the perfect dress for this weekend."
"That would be the perfect job when I graduate."

This isn't something that everybody likes to talk about. It's hard to admit that it bothers us when things don't turn out like we hoped they would. It's hard to admit that we expect perfection, because as humans, we know that it's not realistic.

I'm not saying that we should have low expectations or standards when it comes to our own happiness and well-being, but we should not be so clouded by looming ideas of perfection that we forget to realize what IS good, or even GREAT. Although I don't think these ideas will ever completely fade away, this is something I'm learning to be more conscious about as I get older.


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10 Summer Essentials

Summer time brings about a change in wardrobe, a change in schedule, and even a change in skin care. I want to share a list of favorites that I'm really feelin' for Summer 2015.

1. Platform Wedges
Currently OBSESSED with platform sandals and wedges. Some may say clunky, but I say comfy. So happy these modern Spice-Girl platform, summer shoes are in style. When your whole foot bed rests on a leveled platform, you still get the sexy height without killing your feet. Feel free to bar hop all night without taking off your shoes between walks.

2. Shift Dresses
These are perfect for summer. With a loose, t-shirt shape, these dresses won't cling or stick to your body on warm summer nights. Even though they seem a little shapeless, the feminine details and shorter hem paired with fun accessories or shoes, creates the ideal comfy, care-free summer look. Plus, you can chow down at your favorite food trucks without worrying about your dress feeling too tight on that food baby. Score!

3. Surf Spray
Just because we're land-locked doesn't mean you can't rock the oh-so-effortless beach waves. Blow drying your hair every day and using heated tools is not only bad for your locks, but let's be real... It's a pain in the @$$. Especially when it's a hundred degrees outside. I use Bumble & Bumble's Surf Spray, but many drug stores offer sea salt spray alternatives. Spray on towel dried hair for best results!

4. Braids
Braids of any sort are a girls best friend in the summer. Its miserable to have limp, sweaty hair sticking to your face when you're out with your friends. Even if you're not a braid connoisseur, a simple braided strand in a ponytail or bun adds a fun twist on the kind-of-boring hair style. Add me on Pinterest to see some of the tutorials I plan on trying this summer!

5. Cleansing wipes/pads
I go to the gym daily, and no matter the weather I work up a sweat. Summer in Oklahoma guarantees sweaty hair, sweaty body and definitely sweaty face. Sometimes sweat can cause a different kind of breakout when it gets stuck under your pores. Little tiny bumps form, and even though exfoliating can help, they're still a pain to deal with. I suggest keeping face wipes in your gym bag or purse. Using them after sweating can clear out the pores and help prevent bad breakouts. Check out your local drug store and do some research to find ones that work well with your skin type!

6. Jergen's Natural Glow
Self tanners have a bad reputation, but I've had nothing but good results with Jergen's Natural Glow. It doesn't make you a bronze goddess overnight, but instead creates a gradual, natural tan over time. I use it every night before bed - mainly on my legs and arms. No streaks and GOOD NEWS! They recently changed the formula so it doesn't stink anymore! Yay!

7. Neutrogena Clear Face sunscreen
I love laying out by the pool just as much as the next person, but we all know that sun damage can be dangerous. If you're not going to do anything else, AT LEAST protect your face. As women, the skin on our face is not as tough as mens - that's not anti-feminist, it's just a fact. You can always add bronzer to make your face glow, but you can't take away skin spots and wrinkles that the sun can cause. This sunscreen leaves a matte finish with no clogged pores. I took it to Mexico last summer and used it all day, every day.

8. Sun-kissed hair
I love my dark hair in the cooler months, but as summer approaches, I can't help but itch for some sun-kissed hair. With so many fun ombre, balayage and highlight inspirations floating around it's hard to not want a new summer hair-do! The good thing about this popular hair trend is that you can go as subtle or as dramatic as you want! There are options for everyone out there looking to change it up.

9. Color-block swimwear
Color-blocking is EVERYWHERE right now. I mean, Summer is the perfect excuse to wear as many neon colors as you can at once. Plus, color-blocking is an easy way to mix and match tops with bottoms to expand your swim wardrobe. Whether its a tiny bikini or curvy, cut-out one-piece, there's a color-block suit out there for you!

10. A good water bottle
Sound silly? Well, it's not. Keeping your body properly hydrated has so many benefits to your skin, your digestion, your well being! Balance out the summer ale's with some good old fashioned H20. Enough said.

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For the 20-something Men

Most of the posts I write are geared towards an audience of women. For a change, I've decided to focus some thoughts on young men's style... or specifically the average young man's lack of style. Just to be clear, having a sense of style doesn't mean wearing slacks or button downs every day, or always looking like you hopped out of a GQ magazine.

I know that just like women, men have a variety of interests, likes, dislikes, and insecurities that may affect how they dress themselves. I'm specifically focusing on men around my age because I feel that your 20's are a good time to start putting effort into your personal appearance.

These are general observations made over time, and also a little bit of personal opinion. I hope that I can share some funny and thoughtful insight to any man out there who is lost when it comes to style and grooming. OR, maybe spark some interest in the young men out there who just don't care.



If your "Sunday best" is an American Eagle polo from high school...
Go ahead and donate that right now. Or give it to your cousin in 8th grade. There are better options. A cool denim button down is a more appropriate (and flattering) alternative.

The man on the right can take me on a date, the boy on the left can take me to see a PG movie.

If you can't grow facial hair...
That's ok! Beards are sexy, but hanging on to those 7 hairs sprouting from your chin is not. I think a clean-shaven face can be equally as attractive. Who cares if you can't grow a beard? Rock what ya got.

There is nothing manly about scraggly neck hairs

If you don't know what to do with your hair...
Ask for someone's opinion! Some men aren't lucky enough to have a full head of hair, so if you do, take a chance and go to a salon. There are trained people out there who would love to transform your look. After a trip to the salon I feel like a new improved person. Men can feel that way too. Stop putting off haircuts. A well-groomed man is respectable.




If you don't think shoes matter...
Newsflash: they do. Running shoes are for the gym and flip flops are for the pool. If you haven't bought shoes since your junior year of high school, it's time to take a trip to the store. Yes, you can wear your old faithfuls if you're mowing the yard or washing your car, but invest a few nice pairs. Shoe game is noticed - especially by women. Trust me.

A simple, neutral sneaker-style is a safe place to start. Dress them up or down. You can't go wrong with a classic pair of Chucks.

If your jeans have designs or embellishments...
Throw them away. This needs no elaboration. Same goes for shirts - bedazzled tshirts were never, and will never TRULY be in style. Stick with a dark wash, straight leg styles. Levi's and Gap are great, affordable brands to consider. A good pair of jeans can immediately improve your look.

Those tattered, light wash, too-long jeans are a no-go. 

If your t-shirts are too small (or too big)...
Stop wearing them. A too-small shirt can make you look immature, and a too-big one can make you seem sloppy. it should FIT. This meaning, your body should not be swallowed by the shirt, but the shirt should also not suffocate your torso or show your stomach. Sleeves should hit evenly between your shoulder and elbow.




If you are still wearing cargo shorts...
Swap them out for a new pair...like, today. This side by side comparison should be self explanatory.

Nobody needs that many pockets anyway.

These are just to name a few. If you liked this post, check out www.primermagazine.com or www.artofmanliness.com. Style is important for any gender, and although it is not what is MOST important, it does affect how people perceive you. If you have any questions for me, comment below or send me a personal message!

Happy shopping, men.

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Shelby Schwartz Photography

I recently had the privilege of getting some photos done by one of my friends and talented photographer, Shelby Schwartz. Shelby works closely with Rose Coleman at Studio Art and has been professionally photographing for two years. Looking at her photos, you would think she's been doing this her whole life!

Last summer we spoke about meeting up for a little session, as she's building her professional portfolio. However, both of us were so busy that we never got around to it! A few weeks ago we finally got in contact and found some time to make it happen. We decided to meet in the Paseo, which is a fun, colorful place that offers a unique backdrop for any kind of photo session. 

We had such a good time! And props to models out there... I don't give them enough credit. I'm so awkward with my arms, I never know where to put them or how to pose. But thankfully, Shelby's also a really great director. She had me in poses that felt silly, but actually photographed SO well. Having a laid back photographer that can joke around and make you feel comfortable is so important because you don't want to look stiff or unnatural when you're paying for professional photos. 

I'm sharing a few of my favorites from our session that day, and you can find a link to her website at the bottom of this post. Enjoy!

Contact her for booking at SHELBY SCHWARTZ PHOTOGRAPHY or add her on Facebook!

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Foundation Review

I hate wearing make-up. Let me rephrase... I hate when I can FEEL makeup on my face. Even when I do wear makeup, the more natural the better. Last week I ran out of the foundation I've been using. I haven't had a foundation that I've really loved in a long time. I decided it was time to look for a new one that I had never tried before.

Shopping at Von Maur, I spotted the Clinique counter and decided to go over and ask a few questions. Although I've heard good things about the products, I've always associated it with an "old lady" brand. I was surprisingly wrong. The woman helping me had worked with the company for 6 years and was incredibly helpful. She explained the ingredients, coverage, and wear of the few she tried out on me, and with great success I left with one that I love.

Clinique's oil-free, stay-matte foundation. 

It offers a light to medium coverage with a soft, finished look. And the best part? I can't feel it on my face! Priced at $23 - so affordable.

Here is a before and after comparison taken in natural lighting. I have a little bit of scarring on my chin and some uneven tones in my cheeks. This foundation evens out my skin without creating a harsh (what I like to call "cake face") effect. 

There are no edits on the photo, and I am ONLY wearing my new Clinique foundation paired with my favorite steal of a setting powder.

I wear Ivory 6 in the foundation, and use the Translucent Stay Matte powder by Rimmel.

If you are on the search for a new foundation, I highly recommend approaching someone who works at the makeup counter for suggestions and an application. Try before you buy!

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