I know that just like women, men have a variety of interests, likes, dislikes, and insecurities that may affect how they dress themselves. I'm specifically focusing on men around my age because I feel that your 20's are a good time to start putting effort into your personal appearance.
These are general observations made over time, and also a little bit of personal opinion. I hope that I can share some funny and thoughtful insight to any man out there who is lost when it comes to style and grooming. OR, maybe spark some interest in the young men out there who just don't care.
If your "Sunday best" is an American Eagle polo from high school...
Go ahead and donate that right now. Or give it to your cousin in 8th grade. There are better options. A cool denim button down is a more appropriate (and flattering) alternative.
The man on the right can take me on a date, the boy on the left can take me to see a PG movie.
If you can't grow facial hair...
That's ok! Beards are sexy, but hanging on to those 7 hairs sprouting from your chin is not. I think a clean-shaven face can be equally as attractive. Who cares if you can't grow a beard? Rock what ya got.
There is nothing manly about scraggly neck hairs
If you don't know what to do with your hair...
Ask for someone's opinion! Some men aren't lucky enough to have a full head of hair, so if you do, take a chance and go to a salon. There are trained people out there who would love to transform your look. After a trip to the salon I feel like a new improved person. Men can feel that way too. Stop putting off haircuts. A well-groomed man is respectable.
If you don't think shoes matter...
Newsflash: they do. Running shoes are for the gym and flip flops are for the pool. If you haven't bought shoes since your junior year of high school, it's time to take a trip to the store. Yes, you can wear your old faithfuls if you're mowing the yard or washing your car, but invest a few nice pairs. Shoe game is noticed - especially by women. Trust me.
A simple, neutral sneaker-style is a safe place to start. Dress them up or down. You can't go wrong with a classic pair of Chucks.
If your jeans have designs or embellishments...
Throw them away. This needs no elaboration. Same goes for shirts - bedazzled tshirts were never, and will never TRULY be in style. Stick with a dark wash, straight leg styles. Levi's and Gap are great, affordable brands to consider. A good pair of jeans can immediately improve your look.
Those tattered, light wash, too-long jeans are a no-go.
If your t-shirts are too small (or too big)...
Stop wearing them. A too-small shirt can make you look immature, and a too-big one can make you seem sloppy. it should FIT. This meaning, your body should not be swallowed by the shirt, but the shirt should also not suffocate your torso or show your stomach. Sleeves should hit evenly between your shoulder and elbow.
If you are still wearing cargo shorts...
Swap them out for a new pair...like, today. This side by side comparison should be self explanatory.
Nobody needs that many pockets anyway.
These are just to name a few. If you liked this post, check out www.primermagazine.com or www.artofmanliness.com. Style is important for any gender, and although it is not what is MOST important, it does affect how people perceive you. If you have any questions for me, comment below or send me a personal message!
Happy shopping, men.
That's what's in my jar.
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